My biggest mistake …

Published October 24, 2013 by defysociety

My biggest mistake ever was getting married. I should have never done it and I regret it most days.  I fell in love with someone when I never should have.  I always thought that finding someone to spend my life with would help put me back together again.

I was wrong and I hate myself. I feel so trapped and I hate us both. I want my life back to the way it was 6 years ago.  I’d rather be lonely and alone than lonely and married. I wish I wasn’t so afraid of death. I wish I were someone else.


How could the one who made me happy, make me feel so sad. ..?

Published June 2, 2012 by defysociety

I write this with a heavy heart… in fact, it hurts to breathe and I can barely see through my tears.  My life is far from perfect nor do I ever want to make that claim or lead anyone yo believe I feel this way.  I’m just a broken woman who has somehow managed to survive herself 29 years without completely falling apart.

Most days, I just want to sleep and sleep and sleep untill I can’t possibly sleep anymore without it being considered a coma. Other days, I fear sleep because I worry about what waits to haunt my dreams. More suppressed memories? More vivid ones that no matter how hard I try cannot be erased?  Something abstract and tucked up that I can’t decipher?

I hate every day because I never know what type of argument it will bring between me and someone I love.  The more often these arguments come, the less I seem to care about the person they are with… it’s my mind’s own defense mechanism against having to put forth time and energy on someone who doesn’t seem to give a fuck about me, therefore why should I, of them?

My heart hurts a lot right now, but I suppose we all make mistakes, I just never expected that my own mistake would cause my heart to break.